- Do not feel sorry for yourself when you are under achieving - realize that you think you are because you know your standards and where you stand, and then set yourself out there to achieve. Luck is bull shit (at times).
- What you think might be deep and meaningful to you might not be for the other person. In reality, everything is different. Generalization will be generalization and statistics are statistics and numbers. Everyone is different, nothing is ever deep in a bigger scale.
- Do not expect for goods in return with the goods you give.
- Don't message or give a fuck about a fuck boy. He will remain and always will be a fuck boy in your life. Lock dat boy in the coldest part of your HEaRT.
- People around you trigger comparison of self (especially with social media and pictures). In reality; everyone is busy comparing themselves. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT. And that also; comparing isn't that a bad thing because it does make you wanna achieve bigger things. So compare in a healthy way :-)
- Appreciate the beauty and glow of others.
- You have people around you because you are great and your are capable of being loved.
- Remember that people stick by you for a reason as you do for them.
- Do not assume that people want to be your friend because they have other alter-motives.
- Ignorance is bliss. People want to be your friend because they genuinely do like you and vibe with you. Isn't that a huge compliment?!
- Perception varies and perception is so personal. We are all different compounds. There isn't and I repeat, there isn't a general set of rules to what you consist of.
- Fuck beauty standards. Beauty is an infinite spectrum.
- Stop eating when you're full. But also binge eat when u know it'll calm you down. Then eat lesser the following day.
- Live and spread gratitude like you're gonna die the next day.
- Spoilt milk is not yoghurt.
- If the cute boy at the basket ball court motivated you to go for a run (so you can catch a glimpse of him as you run) by all means, do it (I also imagine myself as Kendall Jenner when I run).
- There are greater and far more interesting things to be attracted and obsessed with other than the opposite sex. Appreciate it as that and leave it as that.
- Communication with honesty and a smile is key. Never hold back yourself if you have anything insightful and positive to give.
- Not every guy you speak to in da club will turn out to be the (hopeful) love of your life. They might be cute and interesting but you both are drunk and flirty. Appreciate the night as that and float on.
- You will cyber stalk the boys from the clubs. And think that they're well cute.
- Do not ghost people. Tell them that you're not interested and decide.
- It's ok if u get anxiety attacks and not pick up the phone when someone calls you.
- Move on from that.
- You will cry in the middle of the night thinking of an ex-lover.
- You will cry on the floor; with your back leaning to your bed thinking of things from home.
- Your mother will give you damn good advice such as, "u have to give your very best in what you do. Like baking. You have to put in the best ingredients to get the best results." And we are da motherfucking cupcakes. Use organic expensive shit for your mind, body and spirit. You'll smell and taste and feel lovely.
- It's ok to accumulate laundry till u have no underwear.
- It's okay to not wear bras and undies out CZ fuck Dat SHT.
- You will have shit days and good days. Your life is like ~~~~~~ that, and it's infinite.
- Do not smoke up loads the day before your submission. Then again, being sober or caffeinated is my fave state of mind.
- It's better to not have a night out before a job interview because stress levels might increase.
- People who look or seem cool aren't really that cool to you at times. And vice versa.
- What you see about yourself is not what other people see of you. For example; you might think that you're a piece of shit but people will think that you're THE shit. Or, your friend might think they're a piece of shit but you're like "no what are you stupid? U r da shit. And I wouldn't wanna be friends with someone who is shit."
- You will be in the car with your parents and will lie in the back seat of your car with your legs up on its ceiling and hands fuck know's where and wonder to yourself "do 21 year olds do these?"
- Be politically aware of the world. You'll always be part of it.
- Compliment people. If u like their dress or shoes. DO IT.
- Buy garlic powder.
- Open markets are the best.
- Walk wherever, whenever, to wherever, if you can.
- Coconut oil and soda bicarb is the best facial scrub ever.
- Pls do not mix your drinks and drink really quick if u wanna spend a lovely night out.
- REMEMBER TO OFF YOUR CURLING IRON.
- Bring an extra carrier with you when you're going out.
- Being a sketch book or loose sheets of paper when heading out.
- "Do you have a rizzler/tobacco/filter." Is definitely a chat up line.
- You don't owe anyone shit. We do it because we want to and vice versa.
- You will have to alter your CV many times and it's frustrating.
- You will do things out of curiousity and regret it the next day. But then the lovely side of it is that you know what you like and what you don't.
- You will spend annoying hours packing and unpacking and moving. And crying in between wondering why the fuck are you such a clothing hoarder and then feel ultra guilty for spending all of your parents money on clothes n promise yourself never to shop again and to get a job.
- You see something nice and on sale and you get it. But it's ok. You'll get a job one day.
- It's PMS. You are not pregnant.
- Ramen nights are the best nights.
- It's hay flu. You do not have cancer.
- Gals ALWAYS have other gal's back.
- The only man worth your time and concern is your dad. And you realize you don't really worry or have concern about him because he is a man. And you love him for that.
- Thing is about change is that once you apply it, the only way that "change" will realistically occur is when you practice it. Change has to be a routine for it to occur.
There's more but.. Oh well, hehe loads of love,
Zoe x
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